Coping with the LA Fires
Although the L. A. fires did not directly impact me, people reached out for prayers in desperation, and the images of the devastation were just too much for me to bear. Just as fire conditions improved and I felt hopeful once again, I received the forwarded email below.
“No harm, but we are holed up in a motel. Maybe here for a while. We are not allowed to go back on our block until all the embers are extinguished.”
My attention focused on the fire once again and what people were going through, and I couldn’t get away from it. I know how scary a fire can be, and the L.A. fires were more devastating than that.
A few months ago, a classic car caught on fire outside our home, appearing to explode and spread to nearby homes. Neighbors battled the fire long before the firefighters came. How do we find the strength to help others in moments of loss?
“It’ll be okay,” I heard someone yell. Yet it was terrifying to watch. More distressing was that I couldn’t get through 911. Through my window, I could see the plume of dark smoke and the white ashes of the fire extinguisher.
The image of a young firefighter battling the flame stayed with me, as did the recollection of an older man getting whatever was left of his belongings. As I reflected on these events, I also heard from my book designer, whose production office was swept in the L.A. fire. Apologizing for the lack of communication, she said, “I’ll give you a call tomorrow to discuss your book project." “It’s okay. No pressure. I know you have a lot going on,” I said to her. She then thanked me for my understanding.
I haven’t heard from her since.
The L.A. fires have impacted many people, including those not directly affected. We must take the time to destress after this challenging wildfire season. One must also trust that those affected will get through this. I believe in the goodness and strength of the human spirit.
Thanks for reading,
Elvira